My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 11 months now. He wants me to try new things w/ him. I mean I give him oral sex but he said he wants me to try new and different things...Any suggestions? I have no idea what to do. Please help me. I want to please him but just giving him head hurts because it takes him forever to get off. I try using my hands but that never works either. Please please please help.
Another thing, He has always been able to go down on me. He used to like it a lot. Well then I started to ask him to finger me at the same time so now he won't go down on me at all. I am shaven and I make sure I am clean all the time. He said it was because he didn't feel good enough and I told him he was great. Is there anything I can do to make him want to do it again?